Friday, 7 June 2013

scientia sexualis

51 soon to be 500 random facts about me



51 soon to be 500 random facts about me

Spring CleaningLast year a healer asked me. "What are you going...



Spring Cleaning

Last year a healer asked me. "What are you going to give up in your old life to make room for what…

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Fat positive portraits

I took these photos last summer. They are not figure flattering to say the least. I wanted to capture my fatness in its entirety. I would have never been able to do this in the past. Now I except myself. Every roll, stretch mark and wrinkle is a part of…

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Beneath my hands

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This is an old set of photos. I took them in the fall of 2010. I wanted to feature my hands but as you can see my breasts put up a pretty good fight to dominate a couple of the photos. I am not a big fan of my breasts. I was a gymnast as a kid so when…

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Heart Shaped BoxIf there be no mercy left in the world, the...



Heart Shaped Box

If there be no mercy left in the world, the doors of heaven will never be barred… ~Rabbi Shalom…

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et lux in tenebris lucet…View Post



et lux in tenebris lucet…

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Thank you for following me. Your photography is really incredible.

Thank you Angel-of-the-odd. I am pleased that you like my photography.

You are very welcome for the follow!

All the best,

Lisa

I have to say that this is just absurd that people can think it is okay to attack someone based on body type/size. This too, can be reversed. I have seen this individuals blog and I could write a pretty lengthy post about them. But I won't. I think you handled it rather well. Like a grown up. Wait, we are grown ups. Aren't we? I love your photographs and you are a very talented person. I always love seeing you post your pictures. They are very lovely.

DEAR Texasheathen thank you very much for your kind words. 90% of the time I don't react to such lunacy. That is part of self love, I am comfortable with me. I don't have to defend myself. In this situation I was annoyed by her promotion of self-care. I don't think humiliating others is very good self-care. I'm not sure what her motivation was when she chose to make fun of me. It doesn't matter. Her disdain for my body is not going to make her happier nor is it going to make her thinner.

I started off my journey to be comfortable in my body now I continue my journey to encourage others to be comfortable in their bodies. I hope that eventually this self identified anorexic will be comfortable in her body.

Warm regards,

Lisa

Self Harm

 So a self identified recovering anorexic thought it appropriate to take my photo, post it on her thinsperation blog and type “reverse” underneath it. I’m fine with people poking fun at my pics, my fat activism, my queer positivity, my blogs, etc. (It has been happening for two years.)  What got to me was her intro at the bottom of the page. According to showmiaway it is not okay to harm oneself in pursuit of weight loss but her actions say it is okay to hurt others. 

”*****I DO NOT promote any kind of ED, addiction or self harm. If you or anyone you know is suffering you must seek help.”

90% of the time I don't react to such lunacy. That is part of self love, I am comfortable with me. I don't have to defend myself. In this situation I was annoyed by her promotion of self-care. I don't think humiliating others is very good self-care. I'm not sure what her motivation was when she chose to make fun of me. It doesn't matter. Her disdain for my body is not going to make her happier nor is it going to make her thinner.

I started off my journey to be comfortable in my body now I continue my journey to encourage others to be comfortable in their bodies. I hope that eventually this self identified anorexic will be comfortable in her body.


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Ever feel this way? Because I feel this way right now… 



Ever feel this way? Because I feel this way right now… 

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Birthday PostToday is my 43rd Birthday… This story is about a...



Birthday Post

Today is my 43rd Birthday… This story is about a yearly redemption. I thought it would be…

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Fake Profiles

I am so fucking sick of people taking my photos and using them for their profile pic… If you’re too insecure to post your own photo on a dating profile maybe you shouldn’t be on a dating site. 

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The photo of you in the crown is just too wonderful! As always, you do beautiful work; and as always, I look forward to seeing more. Thank you!

Dear Creeping Percentages, First of all I love your handle. What prompted you to pick Creeping Percentages. I study bioethics and I see those 2 words a lot.

Thanks for the kind words. I like the crown pic too. I am a big fan of The Paper Bag Princess. That was my inspiration. 

I hope to take some pix in the near future. I am crazy busy with school. I have 4 papers due in the next 2 weeks.

Thanks for saying hello… Warmest regards,

Lisa

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